Language Patterns are being utiilzed by everyone around you. Advertisements utilize these patterns to gain your attention and also to create certain programs.
We have had questions regarding 'manipulation'. Can it be used to manipulate - it depends on your definition of manipulation. You can utilize language patterns to influence and pursuade. These patterns are being used on you whether you are aware of it or not.
And is manipulation bad if it can transform a child who has limiting beliefs or fears into a child who is resourceful and happy?
It is really up to the person to utilize these skills the way they see fit in their lives.